1. No love is perfect. It has its highs and its
lows — and some of them are very high, and
very low — but the lows are not a sign of
weakness or that you shouldn’t be together.
Rather, they’re something that brings you closer
to each other.
2. Sometimes you just need to hold your
partner’s hand or give them a hug, and not ask
questions or give them any advice. Just
knowing that you’re there is more comforting
than words.
3. You can be mad at someone and still love
them senseless. Getting mad at someone
doesn’t forecast the end of your relationship, it
just means you’re humans who have feelings
and screw up from time to time.
4. Someone can come from a broken family or
make it through a tough childhood, and show no
trace of it. This doesn’t mean they have
skeletons hiding in their closet that you’ll
stumble upon one day, it just means they’re not
who they grew up around.
5. Alone time together is sacred. You reach a
point in your life when you’re so busy you feel
like you don’t ever see each other, much less
get alone time together when you’re doing
something other than sleeping.
6. Just when you think you can’t love someone
any more than you already do, something
happens to bring you closer. It might just be a
really hilarious joke that only you two would
find funny or taking the next step in your
relationship, like moving in or getting married,
but passion doesn’t have to fade.
7. Compromises are worth it. Because at the end
of the day, nothing beats being with the person
you love, even if you have to do something you
wouldn’t otherwise do to make the relationship
work. Because their happiness makes you
happy.
8. Communication solves all problems. You
can’t expect anyone to read your mind, even
your soul mate. And your soul mate will always
be able to tell if you’re upset, so you know it’s
better just to tell them why instead of leaving
them guessing.
9. A whole day with nothing to do but hang out
with each other is the hands-down best. This is
why honeymoons are the best best BEST best.
10. Cuddling with the person you love will
always make you feel better. Nothing beats
crawling into the arms of the person you love.
Even sometimes when you think you just want
to be alone, your partner will scoop you up to
comfort you and you’ll feel instantly calmed.
11. When you really love someone, you
realize you can totally lay bare your insecurities
to another person. Even when they feel so
personal you never expected to discuss them
with another soul. And you feel more secure as
a result.
12. When your partner wants to do stuff without
you or needs alone time, that doesn’t mean
you’re in a fight or things are bad between you
two. You know that maintaining lives
independently of one another’s is healthy. And
chances are, when he’s off with his friends, he’s
talking about how wonderful you are.
13. You don’t have to share the same friends
for your relationship to work. You just have to
be respectful of the people your significant other
values.
14. Emotional intimacy and physical intimacy
feed each other. It’s a never-ending cycle that
brings you closer and closer together, and you
feel like you can’t have one without the other.
15. Your soul mate will make you a better
person. You’ll want to be kinder, more
understanding, more supportive, and more
empathetic not just to be the best significant
other you can be, but because your S.O. inspires
you.
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