Husband duties guys should avoid before marriage

1. It’s fine to court or pursue your lady of interest by
taking her out to eat, movies, dates, buying a birthday
gift, etc as you are getting to know her. Just don’t
spend or give excessive amounts of money when asked
because if you are you are being foolish, simply whipped
or being used by a gold digger. Don’t confuse the
getting to know process with providing as you would do
for a wife. You should not be paying for bills, cars, rent
and/or shopping sprees while dating.
2. A woman is a Queen but she is not YOUR QUEEN until
you two are married so you shouldn’t live together while
dating. Never get ahead of yourself losing perspective
because there is no rush so be patient. Don’t give her
every waking moment you or she has free for that
matter. Keep your freedom to do things with your
partners, kids and/or friends and she should have her
space as well to hang out with her girls, go shopping,
etc. She deserves QUALITY TIME but NOT ALL YOUR
TIME while dating.
3. We all know the Bible says we are not suppose to
have sex until married but the reality is 99% of the time
we do so I will keep it real and not act like I’m too
righteous for folks. A woman you are dating is not your
property so you can’t demand sex whenever you want it.
Be patient and when both of you are ready and decide
to have sex then and only then should it occur. ALWAYS
USE PROTECTION WITH ANYONE YOU ARE DATING NO
MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS ABOUT BEING ON BIRTH
CONTROL, TUBES ARE TIED, HAD A SHOT, ETC,! Too
many diseases out here and too many children being
brought into this world into single family homes so PUT
ON A CONDOM if you are engaging in intercourse while
dating after all it takes only 10 seconds!
4. While you are getting to know your lady of interest,
you should not take on the father role of her kids. We
will never agree on the correct time to even introduce
kids to a new man because every situation varies thus
can be different, so I won’t even go there. Just know for
the well being and health of a kid he/she should not
have multiple men coming in and out of their lives. For
all of you thinking what if the kid doesn’t like him, I ask
you who is dating the man you or the kid(s)? Kids
should never dictate WHO YOU DATE. YOU ARE THE
ADULT. Kid(s) eventually leave the nest or home and
then create their own family. A husband is still there
when they are gone to live the rest of your life with.
Never get too involved in a kid(s) life or get too
attached while dating if you don’t have plans to
permanently stay which would ultimately mean marrying
his/her Mother!
Some of you are thinking you should be giving your all
to whoever you are dating and that is all well and good
but I ask you to think about how many boyfriends/
girlfriends you have had in life. Truth is many people
come and many people go in a lifetime so that is the
main reason you should wait until the holy sacrament of
marriage to be 100% vested emotionally, physically and
spiritually in love with each other with no conditions.